Venus in Gemini square Saturn in Pisces on Friday wants sustainability in relationships.
How do we make relationships last?
Well, we make rules and agreements for engagement.
And this transit might have us having conversations around restructuring a partnership or a relationship, talking about boundaries, or centering our values so that we are acting more in accordance with them within our connections.
This transit isn’t soft and ooey gooey. It might feel harsh. It might feel rejecting. It could feel limiting. Maybe you get some feedback. But it might also feel really good ultimately to know the container of a relationship so everyone can feel safe and direct their efforts accordingly.
Venus in Gemini wants light hearted fun and flirty connections. Saturn, on the other hand, reminds us of what’s important over the long haul and also reminds us of the consequences of playing around.
It’s not that playing around or having more casual relationships is bad if that’s what’s happening… it’s that they can be more enjoyable when we know what we are getting into, what everyone wants, and what the rules of the game are.
This could also be about making more structure around a creative project or someone you’re collaborating with and getting more serious.
Or perhaps you’re wanting to dip your toes in something non-committal while the other person is looking for a solid yes or no.
Regardless, negotiating or having a more clear understanding of what you want in relationships and communicating that will be the key.
